Dating Apps Success:
For Men In Their 30’s
Best Matches. Best Dates.
Confusion: Removed.
Online dating has changed — and what works for men in their 20s doesn’t work in your 30s.
Build the right profile, send the right messages, and attract the right women. With the Best dating app coach in the world.
Specifically for Tinder , Hinge & Bumble
You Don’t Have a Dating Problem.
You Have a Profile & Messaging Strategy Problem.
Most men in their 30s struggle on dating apps because:
Their photos don’t communicate confidence, personality, or lifestyle
Their prompts are generic and forgettable
Their messages feel boring or reactive
They’re competing with more polished profiles
They don’t understand how women actually choose on dating apps
The good news?
All of this is fixable in less than a week with the right strategy.
The 3-Step System for Men in Their 30s
Profile Engineering
A complete profile rebuild — photos, prompts, bio, and lifestyle framing — optimised specifically for women aged 28–35.
Messaging Mastery
What to say, when to say it, how to flirt, and how to create momentum.
Yes, there are templates. No, you won’t sound robotic.
Date Conversion System
How to move from match → conversation → date without overthinking or stalling.
This is the system behind thousands of real-world dates.
The 3-Step System for Men in Their 30s
Inside the free blueprint, you’ll learn:
The 5 message types women reply to most
The “Attract → Hook” texting structure
What never to send on dating apps
How to keep conversations flowing
The biggest mistakes men 30+ make
For Men in Their 30s Who Want Better Conversations
Why Dating Apps Work Differently When You’re Over 30
Women in their 30s are looking for different signals than women in their early 20s.
They care about:
Confidence
Lifestyle stability
Emotional intelligence
Direction and purpose
Clear communication
If your profile doesn’t signal this, you’ll experience:
❌ fewer matches
❌ low-quality conversations
❌ ghosting
❌ women who aren’t serious
I help you signal the right traits and filter the right women — without pretending to be someone you’re not.
1:1 Dating App Coaching for Men 30+
Personalised Coaching With Alex Social
Work directly with me to:
Rebuild your dating app profile
Choose or recreate high-performing photos
Write prompts that get strong replies
Improve your texting confidence
Get feedback on real conversations
Turn matches into actual dates
Limited spots. Serious applicants only.
Real Results From Men in Their 30s
“Alex rebuilt my profile and I got more matches in 48 hours than the entire previous year.”
“I went from zero dates to two dates a week consistently”
“Texting used to stress me out. Now I know exactly what to say”
“Women my age actually respond now — and the quality is way higher.”
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Most advice about Hinge prompts for men in their 30s misses the point. This guide explains why “trying to stand out” backfires, and how to answer Hinge prompts in a way that signals calm confidence, stability, and real standards—without sounding try-hard.